The Five Love Languages

I've been busy with my studies and my assignments in STM. I am in Lukut now staying in the church for a night before going to church tomorrow. While I am in STM other than reading my text books that are required for me to read. I am also reading "The Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman. It is really interesting what he wrote about the Love Languages even if you are not in a relationship you can really use these Love Languages in your life although the book that i read was for couples.

I know what some of you are thinking! and its true, since i am in a relationship now, I am also looking for ways to improve my relationship whether with my girlfriend, with my friends or even with my family. I always interested in this area of topic and i read a lot of books about relationships, maybe i am interested in counselling couples. What are the FIVE LOVE LANGUAGE?

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch

From these 5 love languages we can develop and understand other people's love language and try to relate to them with their language. It is especially good for married couples (CC, FF, KY, YC and LSQ too... take note). Everyone have a love tank, and it need to be filled in order to have a lasting relationship. Never depend on your "in Love" experience for that is only during courtship. Love is a choice at times your mate may not love you but you still have to love back. Above all, draw closer to God as a couple and you'll draw close to each other as a couple. :P

Other book that i had read is "Boy meet Girl" by Joshua Harris (recommended for SH and SL).

Dr.Gary Chapman speak on his book "The Five Love Languages"





Joshua Harris speak on his book "Boy Meets Girl"