BE STRONG (I guess)

Posted by CL

YC, I guess u're facing wat every person who has love for ppl face. To be selfish and love urself more? Or to love all others around, but be unhappy inside?

I guess the trick is to balance what is important with those of not so much importance. Ask urself, do i love tat person enough for me to go thru what i feel is unreasonable, or does my comfort in not giving in takes priority? its never a fixed answer of "yes, i will give in all the time" or "no, i love myself more"....u knwo there are situations that require a balancing act...and unless and until the situation arises, we'll nver know the circumstances surrounding it and therefore, wont know wat to do till then.

Sometimes, u'll hv to be selfish in order to get ur life going the way u want it to go...after all, it is YOUR life...and if tat means hurting ppl that are important to you, and ppl tat u care about, well...if they care bout u tat much too, they will understand u...but of course, if u want to be selfish, always tell them in a nice way, and discuss with them rather than just tell them. After all, these are ppl who are important to u in ur life, and u'll want it to remain tat way, right?

I m not into deep Christian tots, but i do hv tis little book since i was a teenager tat tells me wat to do sometimes.

"And mark out a straight, smooth path or your feet so that those who follow you, though weak and lame, will not fall and hurt themselves, but become strong. Try to stay out of quarrels and seek to live a clean and holy life, for one who is not holy will not see the Lord.

Look after each other so that not one of you will fail to find God's best blessings. watch out that no bitterness takes root among you, for as it springs up it causes deep trouble, hurting many in their spiritual lives"

Hebrews 12:13-15

You know best wat to do and wat is wrong and right...i believe that it all boils down whether u hv faith in ur own judgment. Good luck!