Torn Between Two Blogs

Posted by YC

At times I had to endure some headache before deciding on where to blog which post. I tried to keep my personal musings or relatively WOOT irrelevant posts into Walls and Bridges. When I looked back at the description up there on top of the blog page, of which I had personally written, I suppose my dilemma is temporarily overcame.

I wonder if there is any difference between being offended and being self-protective. Or does the different adjectives come in a package with how do I react to certain issues?

Honestly speaking, the way I see it, people take advantage of you when you are not firm enough in your stand. Is there anyone who feels strongly against this? I used to think that it is good to not make life so difficult for other people. Especially those we care about or we care for. Unfortunately, this intention of mine has always been mistaken as a "tidak apa" attitude (that's still fine with me) and worse, being taken advantage of.

Does this mean that from now onwards I'm going to be a selfish brat who goes around demanding for what I want and doesn't give a thought to other peoples' needs? I don't know. I'm still figuring that out. But I'm really sick of being thought as someone who's "tidak apa" and hence can be pushed around. Then when I started to put my foot down, they thought that I am offended. Sick through and through.

Even rabbits have feelings okay. Just that you don't understand rabbit-language doesn't mean that they don't have a language.

P.S. Wondering why does this post qualify as WOOT relevant? Coz feedback is most welcomed, but only those which are God-inspired.